Reliability of our partner is a primary concern for all of us. It is not only in cheating in relationship but also in wider perspective. If you lose your job for a long time, will your partner stay with you or leave you? Can you rely on your partner? Quiz yourself.
Quiz your partner's basic values. Is your partner an opportunist? Suppose you are with your partner out for shopping. He/she like s something and promises the sales person that he/she would purchase that after visiting few other shops. In another shop the same thing is available for a smaller price. What does your partner do? Does she/he go back to the earlier shop and ask them to match the price? Do they keep the promise even at the higher price? Or do they just buy at the smaller price and forget all about the promise? This may look and sound something very trivial, but character is always seen in the smallest instances.
Quiz your partner's compassion. If he/she comes across somebody in need what is his or her reaction? Do they blame that person for his/her fate or try to help them? If you find that your partner is ruthless, the same ruthlessness may one day come to haunt you. Quiz your partner??s different character traits- love, relationships, compassion, understanding, intelligence, values etc. and find out if your partner is reliable. This can change your relationship and may save you from great pain one day. We all ignore the small signs at our own cost. |
