This week I want to talk about end-of-the-date body language. I want to give you some very important tips on observing how a woman acts at the end of your first date.

First of all, let's discuss what happens at the end of a first date. At the end of your fist date is a very awkward time for the both of you. You are nervous about whether you should try to kiss her. She is nervous about what to do if you try to kiss her (especially if she is not attracted to you and doesn't care to date you again).

Anyway, you are walking her to her door. It's time to say goodbye. She may offer a handshake to thank you for the date, she may offer to hug you, and hopefully may move her head towards you to kiss you.

Before I go any further, please keep in mind that some women have a hard and fast rule that they don't kiss on the first date no matter how much she is attracted to you. If she turns away if you try to kiss her, don't hold it against her. She just may not kiss on the first date or she doesn't feel any chemistry towards you to allow you to kiss her.

Let me get back on track to the main point I want you to observe: If you end up hugging at the end of the date, observe her reactions during the hug. If she pats you on the back during the hug, this is what I call, "The Kiss of Death." Why? Because when she pats you on the back it means that she's sorry, but she's not attracted to you romantically and could only just be friends.

However, on the other hand if she clings to you while giving you a hug with no patting you on the back, this is a good sign that she enjoyed the date and is attracted to you.

So, on all of your first dates be sure to observe and analyze those end-of-the-date hugs.